Yesterday morning, Mike took his breakfast (my favorite pancakes) and coffee to the kitchen table. ”Sitting at the the table this morning?” I said, hopefully. We always eat breakfast at home during the week but usually while watching The Today Show, Morning Joe, or Mike & Mike. We hadn’t really seen or spoken to each other for two days while Mike was working an event for his job and when he got home at 11pm and greeted sleeping me with a kiss my 1/4 awake response was “What, you’re not even going to tell me you’re home?” Welcome home, huh? The next morning, I was excited to chat, had so many things to share and Mike sitting down at the table told me that he was open to some conversation.
I love when we eat at the table together but it’s a rare occurrence. We usually eat dinner eat on the couch at the coffee table while watching TV. But recently we’ve both realized that we should eat at our table more.
It’s amazing how much more we talk when we’re sitting across the table from each other–we’ll actually have a conversation. Not like we don’t chat when we’re on the couch but the conversation is much more engaging, much more of a dialogue when we’re sitting at a real table. On the couch, it seems like we’re just reporting out.
If you ever feel disconnected from your significant other, I suggest sitting down to dinner.
I think it’s really important for couples to sit across the table from each other and talk and listen. Honestly, this is important for any people that are living together, family members, friends, roommates, whatever. It’s easy to go about your business and not really talk. And doesn’t it feel so good to really talk?
I’d love to know:
How often do you eat at the table? Do you agree that sitting at the table facilitates better conversation?